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#21 Deji

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Posted 07 May 2008 - 04:58 PM

No-one to socialise with :( ... I live in an old-folk town and all the teens are grungers and emos... ugh... my best friend lives 300 miles away... but he's coming next summer so.... BYE SUCKAS!!! if there were more ppl where i lived i wouldn't be here.

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Posted 07 May 2008 - 05:04 PM

Hm, I could say it's improving, I'm making more friends and managing to get on with them ok, but it's pretty hard.

But whenever I meet new people, or in public places full of people I just freeze up and don't speak. But I guess I'm becoming a bit more confident, that doesn't happen as bad or as much anymore.

I mostly spend my time inside, well all my time, but I went out before to the shop and bought a coke on my own, for some reason, I'm pretty proud of myself, because it probably doesn't seem hard at all for most of you but I really find it hard, especially if I'm on my own.

I suffer from really serious anger problems, so when I someone pisses me off at school or something, I just go insane, laughing in an evil way, scraping my face against rough walls and headbutting doors and sometimes taking it out on people, throwing stones at peoples heads while shouting "Die you fucking cunt I'll slit your throat", and when people see that, they just don't really want anything to do with me, so that makes it harder for me to make friends, but if they ask me why, I tell them, and they become my friend, because they see that I'm not really a bad person, and more people are asking me why, so I keep making friends, improving my social life.

So I guess I could say it's pretty shit, but it's good enough for me.

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#23 Ivan

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Posted 07 May 2008 - 05:07 PM

I've improved my social life big time in these past 2 years, I used to be really shy and stuff like that and now I'm funny, I hang out with my friends and all that so I could say I have a good social life. I don't have a girlfriend but I could so I guess it's okay.
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Posted 07 May 2008 - 05:20 PM

No-one to socialise with :( ... I live in an old-folk town and all the teens are grungers and emos... ugh... my best friend lives 300 miles away... but he's coming next summer so.... BYE SUCKAS!!! if there were more ppl where i lived i wouldn't be here.


What's wrong with grungers?

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Posted 07 May 2008 - 06:23 PM

I have some pretty cool friends around where I stay. All we do is chill wherever and smoke out. It's a simple life, but I love it. Every now and then I'll go out with friends and do shit too, though.

I'm moving out for college in around a month, living on campus. I'm not gonna have a car either so I'm gonna be stuck there on campus for at least a few months with nothing other than a bike. I think I'll have fun though, I'm just gonna meet new people and hunt out all the stoners I can find.
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Posted 10 May 2008 - 01:55 AM

@ People Who think they have no social Life

I dont know how to put this but I did question someone on these forums (can't remember who) because they said they ddin't have a social life and I didn't really understand why. I think you should sort of go out with your friends, if you dont have any you have to make some. I reckon if you are a loner its because you choose to be that way, I know how people feel though who have communication problems etc. Someone in my area had that so we always had to phone him to play footie not the other way round.


Easy for you too say. And no you obviously don't know how people feel with communication problems.

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Posted 10 May 2008 - 01:58 AM

I have a good social life, I have a few good friends, and some fun friends, and a lovely gf. We've been together for like, 9 months and thats lots for a 13 year old (me) and a 14 year old (her)

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Posted 10 May 2008 - 02:15 AM

I have a good social life, I have a few good friends, and some fun friends, and a lovely gf. We've been together for like, 9 months and thats lots for a 13 year old (me) and a 14 year old (her)



Vasco you're where I want to be in the not to present future. Except I'm 14.

Rem: Best to lighten up your mood. I do and the days go by a lot better. Sure I have my enemies in school but that's what friends are for.

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Posted 10 May 2008 - 02:18 AM

I'd lighten up my mood IF I COULD.

http://en.wikipedia..../Social_anxiety

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Posted 10 May 2008 - 02:19 AM

@Rainbow: Ah well, find yourself a good girl, someone who can listen, don't go for looks., go for someone who can listen, someone who cares, oh but if she is hot, just win :) And uhh, how do ya know I'm called Vasco? :P

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Posted 10 May 2008 - 02:26 AM

@Rainbow: Ah well, find yourself a good girl, someone who can listen, don't go for looks., go for someone who can listen, someone who cares, oh but if she is hot, just win :) And uhh, how do ya know I'm called Vasco? :P



I did. There's just this huge silence in between :S

Oh and I think it was Thomas who told me on GTAN :P

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Posted 10 May 2008 - 02:32 AM

OMG U BEENZ STALKING ON ME!!!! :P joke


Now we should get back on topic really!

#33 Ivan

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Posted 10 May 2008 - 08:25 AM

Rem, remember that problem you have is psychological so if you work really hard you can get passed it.
You could try some sort of therapy.
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Posted 10 May 2008 - 08:41 AM

@ People Who think they have no social Life

I dont know how to put this but I did question someone on these forums (can't remember who) because they said they ddin't have a social life and I didn't really understand why. I think you should sort of go out with your friends, if you dont have any you have to make some. I reckon if you are a loner its because you choose to be that way, I know how people feel though who have communication problems etc. Someone in my area had that so we always had to phone him to play footie not the other way round.


Easy for you too say. And no you obviously don't know how people feel with communication problems.


Your right I dont know how you feel, but all I am trying to say is people with these sort of problems should at least make an effort to have a social life etc. I know your going to say you have tried but keep on trying. Social interaction is important, if you cant socialise you pretty much cant do any job in the world.

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#35 Connor

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Posted 10 May 2008 - 11:45 AM

Lol, make an effort? You still don't get that that's actually impossible for some people?

If just anything goes a little off at school, I can just sit there and stare at a wall all day having no contact with people. That makes people think I'm some kind of a retard.

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#36 Ivan

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Posted 10 May 2008 - 12:07 PM

How can it be impossible?
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Posted 10 May 2008 - 12:25 PM

Because it is, that's the way some peoples minds work. Some people can do it, but feel very uncomfortable, some people can't do anything, because it's impossible for their minds to allow it.

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#38 Ivan

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Posted 10 May 2008 - 12:27 PM

Well, I understand your point of view but I believe that if you have a strong power of will then you can overcome those dificulties.
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Posted 10 May 2008 - 12:27 PM

But some people don't...

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Posted 10 May 2008 - 02:48 PM

Yea if some people can't stop saying that it's impossible it just gets harder.




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