Dazza Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 (edited) Well, this topic was to talk about, what should I do if I want to have sex. Yet that was 5 months ago, aka n00bish days. So now I'm changing it a bit. Talk about sex in general, any way any form. Post stories, or ask the guys (and girls) what you should do. Enjoy. Edited May 21, 2007 by Dar-El Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Wow. I can honestly say I never thought I'd see a topic like this on my forums. Whether you're serious or not is another matter, but in anyway it's a bit of a personal question to ask. I doubt many people are going to tell you their experiences. Besides, I think the majority of the members are your age too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dazza Posted January 1, 2007 Author Share Posted January 1, 2007 I know its personal its just i really wanna so when i do 'it' i wont f*** it all up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bear Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 You are 14 thats seem pretty young to be even thinking about it and when you will. But you cant really ask for tips as lets face it everyone at some point is in that very same situation. No point begging for tips as when it happens and if its the right time it should go well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dazza Posted January 1, 2007 Author Share Posted January 1, 2007 Hey my ex wanted to badly but i said no. Plus im not begging im asking. Also im asking coz when i go back to school they might bash me for not having 'it'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TM™ Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Thats just Dumb. Who wants to know what it feels like, Mostly at your age, No even talks about that, Maybe until there 18. Maybe you should ask when your 18. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bear Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Dude arent you more mature then that. Thats stupid that you will do it so you friends will be nice. They say jump do you say how high? I have never let pressure control me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dazza Posted January 1, 2007 Author Share Posted January 1, 2007 (edited) Dude i dont want to get bashed and its not my mates It must be very different in the U.K if 14 year olds dont talk bout sex Edited January 1, 2007 by Dazza Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pandora Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Here you talk about "it" when your 11/12 But srly. 14 is way do youngh to actually "do it". Time will come... And your girl doesn't know either. If you like her and she likes you than I think you don't have to whorry. But if your just doeing "it" because people at school want you to do so than you really don't respect yourself enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Jace is right, I know in the UK once you get to secondary school (11-16) sex always crops up somewhere. Most people are thinking about it and are curious. Bear in mind the legal age of consent is 16 though (I assume this is the same for you in Aus), so you're a bit fucked if you get caught (in more ways than one ) Also, it's clear he isn't doing this for 'friend reasons' because he has already said no to her once. But as I said earlier, I doubt anyone here is going to give you any 'advice'. I'm sure you can type into google your questions and get some answers though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TM™ Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Well Dazza, If you want to lose your virginity, Go for it, Best just to start when your at 18 or more older, If you do have sex, then i guess your ex will become pregnant in no time. But just think about it, I mean what will be the Side Affects after that, I'm not trying to scare you, Just making you think about what happens after sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Godfather Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 IMO sex is wonderful. Go and check it out! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pandora Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 @ TM: you got things to prevent pregnancy these days... But if you abide the katholike church rules than you may not use them. @ GF: HE IS 14. If you ask me the age to start would be arround above 18. My friend is 14 (thinks (alot) about sex) but is far from having it now. The only place I know where people of 14 have sex is some corrupt school fild with children who are going to prison eventually. You'l find condoms at the toilets there (used). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gerard Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 I'm quite surprised how many people seem to think it's inappropriate for a 14 year old boy to be curious about sex. Its probably the most natural thing in the world. It's not all it's cracked up to be, but its damn good at destressing. Its not so much the actual physical act but the experience that's really great. Falling asleep in someone else arms etc etc. I doubt many people are going to tell you their experiences.Why don't you start, Chris? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 LOL @ all the people reading this topic as I'm posting. I must say I'm also surprised at the number of people here saying it's inappropriate for someone of 14 to do it. I can't see why he should wait until after he's 18. As long as both people are ready... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Godfather Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 @ GF: HE IS 14. So am I. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bear Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 I say when your 16 or older is best and you should go for it when your truly ready. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TG187 Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 (edited) When you are ready,do it! Saw in some magazines,that some people do it at 12 years.And it is true. Edited January 1, 2007 by TG187 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pandora Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 At 12 you are far from being mature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bear Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 I agree, my friend lost her virginity at that age. She had to have an abortion. I doubt anyone is ready at that age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rashon. Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 When you are ready,do it! Saw in some magazines,that some people do it at 12 years.And it is true. Do you really think it's appropriate and smart to do it when you're 12? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TG187 Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Well,i didn't and dont want to do it till i get 18 years or even more.But that is what i read in some magazines. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bear Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Im sad I think when your in love is when you should. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TG187 Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 (edited) You can do it when you are in the first date.But much safer is when you meet with your girlfriend several times,and then you can do it.But today many people do it at young ages, 15-18 years.Well,this is my opinion. Edited January 1, 2007 by TG187 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ciaran Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Have you guys seen the number of teenage pregnancies there are in the UK. It is way too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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