Rem, remember that problem you have is psychological so if you work really hard you can get passed it.
You could try some sort of therapy.
You don't think I have?
@ People Who think they have no social Life
I dont know how to put this but I did question someone on these forums (can't remember who) because they said they ddin't have a social life and I didn't really understand why. I think you should sort of go out with your friends, if you dont have any you have to make some. I reckon if you are a loner its because you choose to be that way, I know how people feel though who have communication problems etc. Someone in my area had that so we always had to phone him to play footie not the other way round.
Easy for you too say. And no you obviously don't know how people feel with communication problems.
Your right I dont know how you feel, but all I am trying to say is people with these sort of problems should at least make an effort to have a social life etc. I know your going to say you have tried but keep on trying. Social interaction is important, if you cant socialise you pretty much cant do any job in the world.
Make an effort? Uhm, yeah, what do you think I do? If I didn't make an effort I wouldn't be discussing this.
Lol, make an effort? You still don't get that that's actually impossible for some people?
If just anything goes a little off at school, I can just sit there and stare at a wall all day having no contact with people. That makes people think I'm some kind of a retard.
How can it be impossible?
It's not IMPOSSIBLE but feels like it's impossible to overcome. It actually NEVER goes away, you have to deal with it. Imagine going you're whole life DEALING with it.
Because it is, that's the way some peoples minds work. Some people can do it, but feel very uncomfortable, some people can't do anything, because it's impossible for their minds to allow it.
Yeah, it really NEVER goes away, it's an anxiety. They don't go away and you just need to deal with it.
Well, I understand your point of view but I believe that if you have a strong power of will then you can overcome those dificulties.
Sure, but when it's severe it's ridiculous how hard it is to overcome this shit. It never is fully overcome, in fact it never is overcome at all, you just deal with it, like I said before. I haven't got there yet obviously.
But some people don't...