Have you tried reinstalling your game, deleting everything from your GTA IV directory? If not, try that, and reply.
yes and it seemed to work perfect for about 1 hour and then back to the way it was.
It seems to work fine if there is 3 or 4 people,then when alot more get on there......BOOOM I get bent over and it takes away my birthday :'(
If I keep at it long enoughI can play though it can take up to 20mins.Also when Im the leader or host(not sure what the hell you callit)when Im sporting the little crown next to my name I dont seem to have any trouble and I get to watch all the other poor souls loose their conection.
Adam